You feel this way for a reason
➡️ If you’re struggling physically or emotionally
➡️ If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, exhausted or even numb
➡️ If you’ve tried coping, pushing through or 'getting on with it'
Just know, there is a reason (root cause) you feel the way you do
It's when you discover the real reason, release and let go that things start to change
I can help like you discover those real, often hidden, reasons behind how you feel so you can release what you've been carrying, reset and move forward into new ways of feeling, thinking and being
When nothing seems ‘wrong’ but everything feels wrong
Many of my clients come to me with:
➡️ Ongoing physical pain or symptoms with no clear explanation
➡️ An emotional heaviness they can’t put into words
➡️ A sense or a knowing that something isn’t right, even when life looks fine on the outside
➡️ Experience of trying traditional talking therapies, coping strategies or treatments that haven’t gone deep enough
What I offer isn't about managing symptoms, it’s about understanding what’s underneath them, getting to the root cause, often buried deep in the subconscious
Your body and your emotions are not random, they are responding to something
Forget the surface level stuff - this is deep, intuitive, root cause...
I work intuitively and compassionately, using powerful Deep Structure NLP questions to help you access the part of you that already knows what’s really going on
I don’t tell you what’s wrong
I don’t tell you what to do
I do help you find your own answers
Together, we uncover:
➡️ The root cause of why you feel how you do
➡️ Hidden emotional pain or unresolved experiences
➡️ Patterns, beliefs, responses or reactions that no longer serve you
From there the real change becomes possible and is often, literally, life changing
You can really feel differently
Clients often describe feeling:
➡️ Lighter
➡️ Clearer
➡️ More connected to themselves
➡️ Less controlled by pain, emotion or old patterns
➡️ Able to move forward differently
This isn't about fixing you, you are not broken
It’s about finding your answers, understanding yourself at a deeper level then releasing and letting go of what you no longer need to carry
Ways to work with me
Whether you're an individual looking for deep personal change or an organisation wanting to support valued employees, there are different ways to access this work
Work with me
Private 1:1 sessions and group programmes designed to help you uncover the real reason you feel the way you do and create lasting change
Feel Well, Work Well
A confidential workplace wellbeing solution, supporting employees who are experiencing reduced performance, disengagement or absence by referring them to me
I will help them discover the real reason behind the way they feel so they can release, let go and reset in order to feel differently and return to working well
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Self-connection tools, including cards, journals and downloadable resources to support reflection, insight and deeper connection with yourself
You don't have to keep carrying this
If something inside you knows there’s more going on
If you’re tired of coping and want real understanding
If you’re ready to feel differently
You don’t have to do this alone, you need to be heard – I will see you, I will hear you.
Next step
You’re welcome to explore the site, learn more about how I work or get in touch if something here resonates.
Sometimes the hardest step is the first one – I’m here to help you.
About me
Hi, I’m Nicky, aka The Hidden Pain Detective.
I help you find your own answers to discover the root cause (real reason) behind how you feel through intuitive, compassionate deep structure work that supports real, lasting change.
